Dealing With Death
What’s Up with The Pet Guardian
Dear Readers,
Father’s Day, June 20th, 2010 was a very sad day for my husband and me. Our dog, Casey (Cassandra Mae), passed away. As you may recall, she was 13 years old. She was a Rotti, Small Doberman, Chow mix. Her battle with stomach cancer and arthritis came to an end. Her cancer ruptured and she was bleeding internally. She could no longer eat, drink or wanted to walk or stand. She weighted approx 30-40lbs and was black, brown, and white. She was quite a photogenic member of our family.
Casey will be remembered as a loving, devoted, very protective companion. She taught me how to manage her “good dog, mean dog” trick. I would rub her hind leg and say “mean dog” and she would show her teeth and growl. Then I would say “good dog” and she’d stop. SHE WILL BE SURELY MISSED!!!
My husband and I have the memories and the comfort knowing we made her life a happy one. We always showed her love, respect and kindness. People who love, respect and give their pets a good life are WINNERS!! Those who choose to neglect, abuse, and mistreat their pets are LOSERS! People who do those things are not good adults. They grow up with violent, inappropriate characteristics and it carries over into adulthood. Low self esteem plays a big part in this equation as well. They do not make good husbands, fathers, or sons, and lots of times friends. In a woman’s case, bad mothers, wives, daughters and friends. And we all know people like this firsthand. They think abusing a pet makes them appear “BIG and BAD” when in actuality, it’s quite the opposite. I see them as SMALL and SCARED. And, as much as there is “Unnecessary abusive Owners”, there are as many really “loving Pet Owners.”
I say unnecessary, because it really is. There is no sane reason to abuse your pet. No reason, no situation, acceptable, only for a cowardly bulling, controlling attitude. Two things I highly disrespect — child abuse and animal abuse, and they are connected. It is never too late to change your attitude towards your pet and others. Believe me your friends and family will approve of the new you and respond with love. In this world we cannot go back, only go forward. Pets are loving, giving, respectful animals and should be treated as such. I am PRAYING for a no tie law to pass in North Carolina where every pet will live inside their homes with its family.
Just as we need to examine ourselves as to where we are in our lives and walk with GOD, we need to examine ourselves in regards to our relationship with our pet. Are we treating them properly? Isn’t it time we put our pets where they belong? Television tells us every day, why is it we don’t get it? Why does it take us so long to see the light? Are we not looking? Or are we just avoiding the concept? Your TV is putting all dogs on a higher level, with intelligence. When will you see your dogs worth too? Gone are the days when they were just tied outside alone. If I am describing you, you are living in the past!
It is time to step up to the plate and acknowledge your pet’s worth. Get with the program! Just like dead beat dads and moms, there are dead beat pet owners. There is no reason for you to wear that label. Live in your home with your pet, love and respect each other and help each other enrich and bond your lives. If you have a computer I welcome you to go to www.petheaven.com and click on memorials. Go to May 20th 2010 and view Casey’s name. It’s such a nice way to honor her, for her years of faithful service in our family.
C– COURAGEOUS (protector)
A –ALERT (willing to learn)
S– SPONTANEOUS( motivated)
E– ENERGETIC(loved tricks)
Y– YARD( her favorite place to play ball)
Your Pet Guardian…





